Ruby Wax on the ‘curse’ of fame, ‘poisonous’ Donald Trump and her rival Louis Theroux

Aug 30, 2023 at 2:05 AM
Ruby Wax on the ‘curse’ of fame, ‘poisonous’ Donald Trump and her rival Louis Theroux

Long earlier than Louis Theroux went on his first Weird Weekend, Ruby Wax was chipping away on the shiny coalface of superstar tradition and documenting offbeat US tribes to the delight of the viewing public.

Now the comic, actress, author and psychological well being campaigner says she “can’t get a job on television” and was compelled to “reinvent” when her TV profession took a nosedive after she turned 50.

Louis Theroux attending the Red carpet gala event, #TheMikeGala, hosted by Stormzy, at The Biltmore Mayfair, London, to mark the British rapper's 30th birthday. Picture date: Friday July 28, 2023.
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Wax, who’s about to embark on her first tour in 4 years, informed Sky News: “I’m grateful I got to do those shows. It’s a job everybody wants. But after 25 years, you think, What else?”

She goes on: “It’s over when it’s over. It was over early for me”.

Open about her psychological well being battles through the years, and an envoy for psychological well being charities MIND and SANE, Wax admits that the pursuit of fame was an habit of kinds: “I was so interested in fame… Studying what’s the effect of fame on people. Because it’s fabulous to get in a restaurant using your own name, but it’s also a curse because when they take it from you, it’s like coming off a drug.”

Throughout the 90s and early 2000s Wax grilled A-listers, future world leaders and public figures – holding a mirror as much as superstar tradition of the last decade.

She captured the zeitgeist together with her fearless superstar interviews, chatting to stars together with Pamela Anderson, Madonna, Tom Hanks and the Spice Girls.

And she did not simply do softball interviews.

More difficult interviewees included Donald Trump (he referred to as Wax obnoxious and kicked her off his non-public airplane, she went on to label it the worst interview she’d ever completed); OJ Simpson (Wax had hoped he would confess to the homicide of his ex-wife Nicole Brown Simpson on the present; He did not, however later referred to as her on April Fool’s day to inform her “I did it” earlier than including, “April Fool”); Bill Cosby (he play-acted taking a telephone name throughout their interview, evaluating chatting with Wax to “talking to an answering machine you can’t fix”, whereas she later branded his behaviour “psychotic”) and former first girl of the Philippines Imelda Marcos too.

Shining a highlight on the now a lot talked about subjects of superstar tradition and fame, Wax was the primary girls to entrance gonzo fashion documentary interviews and make them successful in a primetime slot besides.

Wax on Trump: ‘I hated talking to him. I discovered him poisonous’

She additionally did a collection American subculture – Ruby’s American Pie – within the late 90s, investigating themes together with the Klu Klux Klan (KKK), offbeat faith and porn. Again, all themes in Louis Theroux’s wheelhouse, at across the identical time.

But in contrast to with Theroux, there was no faux-naif entrance with Wax, she went in full throttle together with her brash American method – which generally labored a deal with, and different occasions much less so.

On her notorious interview with future president Donald Trump (who was then only a billionaire actual property magnate and presidential hopeful) Wax informed Sky News: “I hated speaking to him. I found him toxic.

“I did not assume I used to be going to study something. I simply thought this can be a horrible expertise, simply horrible. And so was Bill Cosby. I did not assume, ‘I’m going to indicate the world one thing’. I simply discovered him repellent, and he frightened me as a result of he’s so poisonous, and he hated me. So that does not assist an interview.”

Trump went on to throw her off his private plane – complete with a gold sink and cushioned bidet. Wax says: “I believe I may have dealt with it higher. You do not see the concern in my eyes, however it would not really feel good.”

‘I had to re-invent. I can’t get a job on television’

Despite her own harsh review of some of her interviews, the audience lapped up her no-nonsense approach, and her shows were a hit.

A stalwart of BBC output through the nineties – The Full Wax was followed by Ruby Wax meets…and after a gap of a year or two The Ruby Wax Show followed suit in the early 2000s.

But while Theroux’s shows are on constant re-run, and he’s given this year’s prestigious MacTaggart lecture to industry big wigs at the Edinburgh Television Festival, Wax is largely a stranger to today’s TV schedule.

Her rivalry with the fellow celebrity documentary maker has been well documented, with the pair finally forging a truce of sorts after he interviewed her at end of 2020 as part of his Grounded COVID podcast series.

As for his flourishing career, she says: “I form of see why Louis carried on, as a result of he performed himself and I used to be taking part in sort of a personality… I turned 50, and that is towards the legislation. You can solely play individuals who have a terminal illness or are useless whenever you’re that age. So, I needed to re-invent. I can not get a job on tv.”

‘I’m not like Graham Norton’

However, she admits the modern-day superstar interview is much less enticing than in days passed by.

“I wouldn’t really like to do any more interview shows because you can’t get celebrities the way I could. Now, there’s too much PR and they’re too careful.

“In my day, I may interview them for every week, and that was pleasurable. I’m not like Graham Norton, the place you may chew ’em out in quarter-hour. I would not be good at that.”

But Wax says she would have liked a shot at more cerebral shows too, adding: “I might have preferred to do Newsnight. I’m actually sensible.”

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A girl of many abilities, Wax can also be a classically skilled actor (she spent 5 years with the Royal Shakespeare Company) and was awarded an OBE for her providers to psychological well being in 2015.

Now with a tour about to begin – documenting a seek for the which means of life which ended up in a psychiatric ward – a reinvented Wax admits: “I’m always running.”

Unlike many performers who dread a tour, Wax says: “I like dwelling out of a suitcase and I like assembly new individuals. I believe it is as a result of my dad and mom had been refugees they usually knew how you can decamp inside three minutes. And so, I’ve that in my DNA. I find it irresistible.

Wax’s tour – I’m Not As Well As I Thought I Was – kicks off on 14 September in Brighton, and runs till late November. The ebook is out now.