Mum livid as gran ‘will not go to’ new child as she’s too busy portray her nails

A girl has shared her frustrations after her mother-in-law selected to not go to her new child child right away – regardless of doting over her different grandchild.

The unnamed girl took to parenting discussion board Mumsnet to vent as she revealed her mother-in-law had visited her different grandchild in hospital on the identical day they had been born.

But 10 days submit partum, the lady is but to see her mother-in-law which has left her feeling like she “favours” her different grandchildren.

Writing on the discussion board, she stated: “Just had my first baby. She’s currently a week old. MIL hasn’t even came to see her. When her first grandchild was born a few years ago, everyone in the whole family – including my husband – was made to go to the hospital the same day the baby was born to meet it and have photos taken. She’s obsessed with her first grandchild (now seven).

“Looks after her at weekends and some days every week when sons ex-wife is working. She consistently rings my husband on a regular basis and simply talks on a regular basis about her.

“My baby is 10 days old today and she hasn’t even bothered to come see the baby. None of the family, including my FIL or brother  has not seen the baby or asked about it.

“Am I being unreasonable to assume all of them made a fuss over the opposite sons infants however not ours? MIL buys different youngsters the world and hasn’t purchased ours one reward.

“Never even got a card. We were in town on Monday picking up few things and she rang my husband who was also in town. It’s a very small town. She didn’t even ask to come meet us then and we were only a two minute drive away.

“She has time to get her hair and nails carried out each Saturday. To be trustworthy I simply kinda really feel like our child has been neglected. It took us 13 years to have our miracle child so I simply discover it very hurtful as its such an enormous occasion in me and husbands lives.”

The woman was met with a mixed response, with one person asking how often they had invited the mother-in-law over. They wrote: “Did you invite her to return on Monday, when she was close by? Which different days did you invite her and she or he declined to return and see the child?”

Another said: “I suspect the brother is the favorite son and now his DGC is the favorite GC. It does appear the firstborn grandchild will get all the eye. But this isn’t essentially at all times an excellent factor.”

A third wrote: “They may be ready for an invitation. Of they may not have an interest in any respect. You cannot change their behaviour so, as exhausting because it appears, you have to focus by yourself little household and revel in that.

“What about your parents, have they met your baby yet?”