uby Wax mentioned she had the “drive of a Rottweiler” to go away her dad and mom’ dwelling within the US and – had she not escaped – believes she “would be dead”.
The comic, author and psychological well being campaigner, described her childhood as a “lock-in”, watching out of her window “with longing” as different kids performed with their dad and mom within the park reverse her household dwelling.
The 70-year-old in contrast her “bizarre” upbringing to the cartoon The Addams Family whereas showing on an episode of Kate Garraway’s Life Stories.
Speaking about her dad and mom, who had come to the US from Austria earlier than the Second World War, Wax mentioned: “They took the war from Europe and brought it to the kitchen.
“They slung these verbal grenades at each other and I was in the middle, especially because I was born into the land of the free and the brave and I could have a really great life and they were nipped in the bud at 22, so they wanted to make it hard (for me).
“They were pretty violent with each other (and me), you’d have the shit knocked out of you.”
Wax described her teenage self as “rebellious”, regularly making an attempt to flee the household dwelling to get away.
She informed the ITV present: “I had ambition and the drive of a Rottweiler to survive. I pushed them (her parents) out of the way and I was very rebellious, I’d creep out of the window when I was 18.
“I remember I hitch-hiked at a private airport to get to San Francisco and then, of course, I’d go back (home) and they’d beat me up, and I’d go out again.
“I did everything to spite them and they were getting angrier and angrier.”
Wax, who famously interviewed OJ Simpson and Donald Trump for her 90s TV sequence Ruby Wax Meets…, recalled a very violent episode together with her father which occurred in entrance of her mates.
“My dad once beat me up in front of all my friends, and my girlfriends all made an igloo around me and he was trying to get to me around their legs,” she mentioned.
“I had friends who would literally protect me, that’s why I like large groups of women sometimes because I feel that is my igloo of protection – a comedian was born,” she mentioned.
Wax ultimately moved to Glasgow to review drama, earlier than becoming a member of the Royal Shakespeare Company in 1978 alongside the late stars Glenda Jackson and Alan Rickman – who inspired her into writing.
She met her future husband, producer Ed Bye, on the set of Girls On Top with Jennifer Saunders and Dawn French, and so they obtained married in 1988. The couple have three kids: Marina, Madeline and Max.
“I’d never really had crushes, I’d liked boys but I was scared of men, I’d go behind pillars at school,” she informed Life Stories host Garraway.
“My dad was a little Trumpy, he was terrifying. If you’re hit by men, you’re going to be scared of men, but Ed was so gentle and adorable – men in America didn’t really have that female streak.”
Wax mentioned it was her sense of anger that helped her survive her traumatic childhood.
She mentioned: “If I hadn’t had a whacking great sense of anger I think I would have gone under, but I was addicted to anger for quite a long time, I had to work really hard to get it out of my system.
“For me, it was survival because it saved me, if I wouldn’t of gotten out of there, I would be dead.
“I have a long line of suicide on my dad’s side so yeah it would have happened.
“If I stayed there, I wouldn’t have made it. And I got out.”
Wax went on to have a profitable comedy profession and large TV success, interviewing well-known faces reminiscent of pop star Madonna and late actress and author Carrie Fisher – whom she described as her “heroine”.
When requested why her TV work “dried up” in her later years, she mentioned: “Because I turned 50 and that’s not allowed.”
Wax, who mentioned she has suffered from melancholy all her life, went on to finish a Masters diploma on the University of Oxford in Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy, charting her personal psychological well being disaster in a profitable memoir, I’m Not As Well As I Thought I Was, and a one-woman present speaking overtly about psychological well being.
She later based the Frazzled Cafe, for individuals who wish to meet and share their tales, and has co-authored various mindfulness books.
“To help people is the ultimate reward,” Wax informed the ITV present.
“People, if you’re in showbusiness, come up to you and say, ‘that was really funny, you made me laugh’, but when somebody says, ‘my brother almost committed suicide but he read your book’ then you go woah, was that a life worth living.”
Kate Garraway’s Life Stories returns on Wednesday at 9pm on ITV1 and ITVX.
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